Breaking the pattern through God grace with the intent purpose to help women of a man of all walk of life recognize it is a pattern if you have been in more than one abusive relationship or marriage and I know this is the most secretive thing especially in the church world because we want our marriage to be a good holy one and to say we have the perfect mate. If the truth be known I''m going through hell. I have been ordained to write this book to inspire you to know you are a jewel in the sight of God and no one deserves to be mistreated. and love is not abuse and making up and saying I am sorry and you being knock down again. abuse has no good end.